About the song

If You Don’t Know Me By Now, a timeless tune nestled comfortably in the hearts of soul and pop music enthusiasts alike. Released in 1989 by the British band Simply Red, this song transcended its origins as a cover and became a signature hit for the group, propelling them to international fame. But the story of If You Don’t Know Me By Now stretches back further, weaving a rich tapestry that merges soulful songwriting with the smooth, sophisticated sounds of the late 80s.

Originally penned by the legendary songwriting duo of Kenny Gamble and Leon Huff, the song first graced the airwaves in 1972. Performed by the Philadelphia soul outfit Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes, the original version captured the essence of the genre with its impassioned vocals, driving rhythms, and poignant lyrics. It became an instant hit, topping the R&B charts and establishing itself as a cornerstone of the soul revival movement.

Simply Red, fronted by the enigmatic vocalist Mick Hucknall, took a keen interest in the song. Their version, however, offered a fresh perspective. Released in 1988, it incorporated elements of pop, jazz, and even a touch of reggae, creating a smoother, more laid-back feel compared to the original’s soulful intensity. Hucknall’s vocals, imbued with a touch of nonchalant charm, delivered the lyrics with a conversational ease, drawing the listener into a personal plea for understanding.

If You Don’t Know Me By Now hinges on the central theme of trust and communication within a long-term relationship. The lyrics paint a picture of a couple navigating the inevitable disagreements and misunderstandings that arise over time. The singer pleads with his partner, urging her to have faith in their bond and their ability to work through their differences. Lines like “If you don’t know me by now, you will never, never, never know me” become a powerful refrain, highlighting the importance of mutual understanding built over shared experiences.

The song’s enduring popularity can be attributed to its relatable lyrics and undeniably catchy melody. It resonates with anyone who has ever faced challenges in a long-term relationship, offering a comforting reminder that communication and trust are the cornerstones of lasting love. Simply Red’s version, with its accessible sound and soulful undercurrents, struck a chord with a new generation of listeners, ensuring that If You Don’t Know Me By Now continues to be a beloved classic, enjoyed by music aficionados across the globe.

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Lyrics

“If You Don’t Know Me By Now”

If you don’t know me by now
You will never never never know me

All the things
That we’ve been through
You should understand me
Like I understand you
Now girl I know the difference
Between right and wrong
I ain’t gonna do nothing
To break up our happy home
Don’t get so excited
When I come home
A little late at night
Cos we only act like children
When we argue fuss and fight

If you don’t know me by now
You will never never never know me

We’ve all got our
Own funny moods
I’ve got mine,
Woman you’ve got yours too
Just trust in me like I trust in you
As long as we’ve been together
It should be so easy to do
Just get yourself together
Or we might as well say goodbye
What good is a love affair
When you can’t see eye to eye

If you don’t know me by now
You will never
Never never know me