About the song

A song that resonates deeply even decades after its release in 1978. It’s a gem nestled within the critically acclaimed album 52nd Street, which itself holds a special place in Billy Joel’s expansive discography. This wasn’t just another collection of catchy tunes; it marked a turning point, showcasing his artistic growth and willingness to experiment with jazz-influenced arrangements.

Honesty stands out even within this rich tapestry. It’s a poignant ballad, a stark contrast to the playful energy of some of its album mates. The piano takes center stage, its melancholic melody mirroring the introspective lyrics. Joel, never one to shy away from raw emotions, confronts the elusive nature of honesty in relationships.

The song opens with a deceptively simple line: “If you search for tenderness, It isn’t hard to find.” This sets the stage for a world where affection is readily available. But the mood shifts as Joel throws in the first gut punch: “You can have the love you need to live.” This cynical undertone suggests that perhaps this tenderness isn’t genuine, that it might be a superficial substitute for something deeper.

The chorus truly encapsulates the song’s essence: “Honesty is such a lonely word” This line, repeated with a haunting emphasis, is a lament for the scarcity of truth in human connection. “Everyone is so untrue” – a harsh indictment, but one that resonates with anyone who’s ever felt deceived or misunderstood. “Honesty is hardly ever heard” – a yearning for genuineness, a plea for a world where transparency reigns. And finally, “And mostly what I need from you” – a vulnerable plea, a desperate desire for a partner who prioritizes truth above all else.

Honesty isn’t all despair, though. There’s a flicker of hope within the melancholic melody. The bridge offers a glimpse of what true connection might look like: “Maybe someday we’ll find a world / Where honesty is commonplace.” It’s a utopian vision, perhaps, but it speaks to the enduring human desire for authenticity in our relationships.

This song struck a chord with audiences in 1978, reaching the Top 40 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. But its impact extends far beyond its initial success. Honesty has become an enduring anthem for those seeking genuine connection, a reminder that even in a world filled with deception, the pursuit of truth remains a worthy endeavor. It’s a song that continues to resonate with listeners of all ages, a testament to Billy Joel’s ability to capture the complexities of human emotions in a way that feels both timeless and deeply personal.

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Lyrics

“Honesty”

If you search for tenderness
It isn’t hard to find
You can have the love you need to live
But if you look for truthfulness
You might just as well be blind
It always seems to be so hard to give

“Honesty” is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you

I can always find someone
To say they sympathize
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
But I don’t want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe

“Honesty” is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you

I can find a lover, I can find a friend
I can have security until the bitter end
Anyone can comfort me with promises again
I know, I know, I know

When I’m deep inside of me
Don’t be too concerned
I won’t ask for nothing while I’m gone
But when I want sincerity
Tell me, where else can I turn?
‘Cause you’re the one that I depend upon

“Honesty” is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you